There is no one in the world who can say that he has everything that he needs, there would be something or other which would always be missing. However, the worst is when you fail to please your partner in the bed. There could be nothing worse than that. The pleasure to see your partner being able to reach the sexual climax is a sight that one could die for. Imagine that you are still to reach the climax and your partner is done. How would that make you feel? Terrible! That is how a woman feels when you would have your orgasm and she would not even be near getting one. Hence, sex is clearly not about having an orgasm but it is all about making your partner have one, if you really want to enjoy your sex life.
I have realized that sex is all about knowing what the partner wants and what points to touch to arouse her to feel sexually driven. This not only allows her to enjoy the act but makes things better for me as well. The advice that I have for you here is –
To start with you should know that sex has two aspects. Being a guy it is quite evident that you would fail to look at the emotional side of it as for the guys it is generally the physical aspect. Women on the other hand weight more to the emotional aspect of the same rather than the physical act. Hence, making your partner relaxed and getting her in a mood is the right way to make sure that she gets her orgasm. Though, all women are not the same but more or less each woman would have some things that would arouse her to get into a sexual mood like – romantic songs, flowers, candles or foreplay for that matter.
Secondly, remember that women like to feel the penis in their vagina completely. However, men when they are excited they would like to thrust very fast. This is not exactly which would be liked by the partner. She might or might not say the same, but this would hold true for all the women. For men, thrusting fast would make then come quickly and they would not be able to enjoy as much as they would like to.